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Meet Marta Gelencser

I’ve been the woman who looked fine but wasn’t. Now I help others see what they cannot

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Discover the five things people need when they look fine on the outside but are quietly carrying more than they show.

EXPERIENCE WITHOUT JUDGEMENT

Perspective through experience

I spent 30+ years in international finance, including 25 years at Citigroup, managing teams across the UK, US, Japan, Greece, Luxembourg and Hungary. In those rooms, people were often performing at a high level while privately carrying far more than they showed. I became the person people came to when life felt complicated, not for therapy, but for perspective.

Over time, I saw the same pattern again and again. People were navigating divorce, relationship breakdowns, bereavement, career crossroads, burnout and personal reinvention while still trying to show up at work. On the outside, they looked capable and composed. Inside, they were often exhausted, confused or silently struggling.

I also know what that feels like from my own life. I have been a career woman, a mother, a stay-at-home parent, a woman rebuilding after divorce, and someone who has had to find her way through loss, difficult relationships and reinvention. Those experiences shaped how I listen, how I speak and why honesty matters so much in my work.
That is why I created Lightbulb Perspective. My mission is to give people a confidential, judgement-free space to regain clarity, confidence and perspective when life feels complicated. For organisations, this means offering a more human layer of support for employees who may never call the EAP, speak to HR or tell their manager what is really going on.

I believe the people who are quietly struggling are often the ones we need to notice sooner. They may not need clinical support, but they do need somewhere safe to talk before things become too much. Real talk, fresh perspective, total confidentiality and no judgement are not just brand words for me. They are the reason Lightbulb Perspective exists.

TRUSTED EXPERIENCE


From global finance to human support

I bring senior corporate experience, global team leadership and lived perspective to conversations that need honesty, confidentiality and no judgement.

“The biggest risk isn’t the people in crisis. It’s the people who look fine and are the least likely to ask for help.”

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Who you’ll work with

Real life experience, honest questions and perspective without judgement.

I have been the career woman, the mother, the stay-at-home parent and the woman rebuilding after divorce. I have also spent decades in high-pressure corporate environments where people were expected to keep going, whatever they were carrying.

That is why Lightbulb Perspective feels different. I bring lived experience, corporate understanding and total confidentiality to conversations that need honesty, warmth and a clearer way forward.

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Are You Fine, or Just Getting By?

Sometimes “I’m fine” is true, and sometimes it is just the answer we give when we do not know where to start.

This 12-question quiz helps you explore whether you are genuinely OK, quietly overwhelmed or somewhere in the messy middle. You will receive a personalised result at the end, giving you a clearer sense of what may be going on and what kind of support could feel useful.

It is also a simple way for organisations to understand why people who look fine may still need a safer conversation.